This is not a post that condemns homosexuality and lesbianism. This is not to criticize or abhor people who have chosen such gender preference. So too, this does not mean surrender or embracing it. This has nothing to do with the gender preference, really. But I would like to stress something that is not right, whether it is done by a woman, man, homosexual or a lesbian. It’s “breaking one’s trust” and “being victimized by inappropriate acts”…

When a man makes a pass at a woman who does not like the man doing it, the woman naturally feels bad. Same thing with all the other sexes and gender preferences. Because technically, if the recipient liked the act, then the two would be flirting and perhaps end in a sexual mood or may be a door to opening a good relationship sooner or later. No gender is ever exempted from this. Just as no gender is also exempted from abuse, neglect or harm..

I have friends telling me that they go into a different kind of relations all because they didn’t want to get hurt anymore. Man on man or women on women relationships that others would really raise an eyebrow at or genuinely accepted and tolerated. Well, we are in a new era and if we respect other people, we respect what they do with their lives.  But it’s a different thing when a woman manipulates, abuses and disrespects a woman.

Believe it or not, it is not only men who do acts of lasciviousness on a woman. And believe it or not, it is not only men who rape women. Sometimes, the woman or women that a woman trusts are the ones that hurt her.. With this in mind, we women must be keen with all the signs…